"We ought to be asking what connection there might be between the state of mind and behavior of the young man who committed this crime and the home and society in which he lived."
The young man who committed this mass murder had Asperger's Syndrome, which is a developmental condition. The impairment resulting from this condition can be slight or it can be significant. But there has been much commentary made that has equated this Syndrome with mental illness, but that is not correct. We ask that you consider carefully Star Parker's comments, particularly asking yourself if laws regarding guns really are what is broken. Also consider this comment by George Nielsen, in response to the commentary: "If you treat people with a disability like they are dirt, will you get away with it? Are you not going to reap what you sow?"Lessons from Sandy Hook
By: Star Parker, December 24, 2012
Nothing strikes deeper to the heart than the loss of children. It’s one more reason why the horror in
I do not believe there is
any human suffering like the suffering of a parent who loses a child. I know it from personal experience. I lost a
beautiful, young teenage daughter almost 10 years ago, and the pain never goes
away.
When tragedy strikes, we
want to do something. It is a natural human instinct that when we suffer, we
conclude it is because something is broken and to want to fix it.
But in order to fix it,
we need to understand what’s broken.
Debate about access to guns
and assault weapons is reasonable at this time. But it would layer tragedy on
top of tragedy if the only thing we walk away from this incident with is that
what may be broken in our nation is our gun laws.
We ought to be asking what connection there might be between the
state of mind and behavior of the young man who committed this crime and the
home and society in which he lived.
We should use Christmas
this year to think about this. Nothing could be more in the spirit of the
holiday.
Our popular idea about
freedom is that it is about individuals being able to do what they want as long
as they don’t hurt others.
But the limitation we have
in thinking about whether we hurt others is whether there is immediate and
obvious physical damage. Hence, the first political reaction to the Newtown
But what about damage done
to others that may not be immediately obvious in the form of physical injury?
What responsibility do we
bear for those we call “mentally ill”? How might their mental state and
behavior reflect and result from our behavior toward them?
The theme that seems to
have defined this tragic young man’s reality is isolation.
The descriptions we read
convey that he was a “nerd,” “socially awkward.”
I think we all can agree
that isolation, certainly of a child, is unhealthy. But if we agree that
isolation is unhealthy – damaging – how is this reconciled in a society that
rejects the idea that there are truths that transcend individuals and connect
us all to each other, that there are social truths as well as individual
truths?
If a free society is just a
collection of individuals who choose to live together because it is useful to
do so, then those whom we do not view as useful we push aside and isolate.
The most vulnerable to this
emotional brutality are children – and often the most sensitive and talented.
We ought to be thinking
about the falsehoods we commonly accept so we can wake up and improve.
If we really believe that
in a free society pursuit of self-interest does not include behavior that harms
others, we should appreciate that a society that equates freedom
to moral relativism and meaninglessness does harm others – and we should reject that [as a societal
standard for freedom].
The collateral damage of
embracing the half truths and outright lies of moral relativism create too many
problems to sweep under the rug. The
damage that is done to the elderly, the unattractive and unskilled, the
“socially awkward” and the unborn cannot be fixed by Band-Aid laws that pretend
to fix it all.
There is no Band-Aid for the
damage caused by not seeing and respecting each individual as unique and
sacred, made in the image of their Creator.
The isolation and
alienation that results in a society fueled by usefulness rather than
unconditional love leads inevitably to tragedy like what we have just
witnessed.
This should be this year’s
Christmas message from Newtown
Star Parker is president of CURE.
CURE is Center
for Urban Renewal and Education.
www.urbancure.org
